Leaning Into God in These Times

Man...every day it seems like things are going from bad to worse.

 Lately, I have felt paralyzed by anxiety, fear, and worry. I have been stuck in a rut, just hoping to wake up tomorrow and see that everything has gone back to "normal" life as I know it.  I've found that the stress of everything changing so rapidly has made me 'snappy' towards my children and husband.

And why? None of this is their fault. Instead of focusing on the things I should be, I'm constantly pouring over new information given to us to the point that my head feels like it could explode. In a way, all I've been trying to do is find someone or something to demonize in all of this. Who is the real enemy? What should I really be doing? What can I buy to best protect my family? Which politicians can I trust? Will this just usher in more freedoms being stripped away from Americans?

Let's just be real, it's a scary time right now! But God got a hold of my heart so gently last night and gave me such a peace that I've never quite known before.

I was watching a video posted from an end times guy that I like and he totally just hit the nail on the head of the whole situation. No, he wasn't saying this was caused by God or Satan. And no, he wasn't giving me tips on what to stock up on or what to do in an emergency. He simply said, "Christian,  it's time to lean in. Stop fighting what God is trying to accomplish through you in this situation and LEAN INTO IT."

This whole time I've been fighting it. I'll start to pray, but as soon as I get on social media, my quieted heart starts pacing again. I'll act like I've completely given over to God and then a conversation with someone brings all of the emotions right back to the surface. 

I've been in fight or flight mode and making hasty decisions. None of this is within my realm of control and I hate it. But guess what? It's not my job or your job to fix it.  It's not my job to be in control. It's not my job to figure out why or what's next.

My job is to be a mom, a wife, and a teacher right now. To take care of my home & family in the best way I know how. To let my faith shine before all men, so that they may see HIS good works. I should be praying for revival everyday in this. My quiet time with God, in His Word and praying, should have preeminence over everything else. 

Christian, God is going to use this time in your life and mine to prune us. To strengthen us. To discipline (not punish) us. To melt us into what HE wants us to be. Remember,  we were born for such a time as this! 

He knew we would endure this from the beginning of time! And it's comforting to me to know that so many others before me lived in trying times themselves...many of them, suffered war, persecution, disease and  famine. Yet, when they leaned into God and His work in this world, amazing things happened as a result.

God is using all of this to change my heart. To give me His desires. To let my kingdom die and further His. It's all a part of His plan and I hope I never lose sight of that. 🙏🙏🙏

XO

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5 Skincare Tips to Get You Started in the Right Direction!

Ahh, Skincare.

It sounds like such a simple concept. Then you go to online shop or step into Sephora and you're immediately aware that there is no such thing as "simple" when it comes to the array of skincare products that are on the market.

If you're like me, you look at the shelves of products and you're in shell schock.

How do I know which products will work best for my skin?
How much am I willing to spend on products that I'm not positive will work for me?
What ingredients should I avoid in my skincare?
What time of day should I use what products?

These are all some of the questions I have asked in the past. And believe me, I've tried a lot of products on my skin. Ranging from high end, to low end. I finally feel like I am in a good rythym with my skincare regimine, and although I wouldn't say I've discovered a fool-proof formula that will help every. single. person. I would love to share with you just a few tips on how you can find the right skincare products for your own skin.

I'm going to keep this as basic, simple, and practical as I possibly can because I get how confusing it all can be!

First, in order to find which ingredients will target your specific skincare needs best, you will need to identify what type of skin you have.

  There are a few basic types. Normal, Oily, Dry, Acne prone, Sensitive, and Combination. Combination is basically just a fancy name for having characteristics of multiple skin types in one. Can you guess which type I have? Yup....that's right. COMBINATION!

I have always thought, since highschool, that I have had Normal to Oily, and that was mostly the case. However, having children and dealing with fluctuating hormones has left my skin with multiple issues. I do still deal with oiliness and acne, but I also have dry patches and some sensitivity.

If you're confused about which skin type you have, check out this video that may be a help to you.

Ok, now that you've determined which skin type you mostly likely have, no we can move onto which products you should be using. I'll be posting more in-depth advice on specific skin types later, but let's look at what's beneficial to almost everyone!

Because, don't forget, we are trying to keep this simple.

The types of products I will be mentioning in this post will usually work across the board. Now, dont't get me wrong, I am not naive enough to think that there's a "cure-all" product for every skin type, because there certainly is not. However, these products are good for almost anyone, like I mentioned before .

Notice the use of the word almost. There is always exceptions to every rule, and if you're skin is the exception, don't dismay. I'll be doing a post on super sensitive skin in the future.  :)

Now, what I will say before getting into them is that you should always skin test a product first. You can do this by applying some to the skin on your forearm. Once the product has passed that test, you can try a patch of skin on your low cheek and see how it works with the skin on your face.

Ok, without any further ado, let's get right into which types of products you should be using on your skin.

Photo by Retha Ferguson from Pexels

1. Products free of Parabens, Pthalates, and other toxic chemicals.

Listen, I probably sound like a broken record saying this to you, but just chalk this up as the last time you need to hear it. STOP using products that contain hormone disrupters in them. It's not good for your skin and it's not good for your body. Your body deserves more than that. I get it, these products are probably cheap. But, girl, you're not cheap, so don't skimp on this. If a product contains Parabens, Pthalates, or other harsh chemicals, let it be a deal-breaker for you. You're better than that.

2. Moisturizers that contain natural emollients.

Some examples of natural emollients are jojoba oil, avocado oil, squalane, shea butter and cocoa butter. There are MANY other different forms of an emollients, but it would take awhile to list them all. Basically an emollient is an ingredient in a moisturizer that softens the skin. Emollients work to "fill in the cracks" on our skin's barrier and give it a hydrated appearance and texture. Now, not every emollient is created equal, in my opinion and one that I steer clear of is Mineral oil.

Did you know there aren't actually any minerals in mineral oil? Interesting,  right? It's actually derived from crude oil (like where we get gasoline from) and to me, that just weirds me out.

 Is it safe to use? Yes. But is it probably the best for your skin? I doubt it. I feel like there are so many better options out there, like, emollients that contain anti-inflammatory & antioxidant benefits. Boabab oil is a great example of this! Rich in Omega 3s, antioxidants and vitamins....now why wouldn't I want that in my skincare?!

3. Hydrating Products that don't dry your skin out.

Beware of the products that make your skin feel tight, itchy or dry after using! And please, please don't over wash your face with soap and water. Too much of that can actually break down your skin's barrier.

And, if you have oilier skin, don't be afraid to add a moisturizer. Your skin could be even more oily because its trying to overcompensate for those drying products!

You want to use products that are filled full of ingredients that will help that skin barrier stay moisturized. Ingredients that are good to look for are hyaluronic acid, peptides, boabab oil (there it is again!), fatty acids, plant-derived oils and ceramides.

When in doubt, hydrate, hydrate, hydrate!

Here is the Hydrating Cleanser that I use.

4. Spend the extra $$ on a good Serum & Essence!

Now, maybe you have no idea what these two things are and if you don't,  that's ok. Here's a quick explanation. A serum is a targeted treatment, especially beneficial for anti-aging and an essence or Hydrating mist basically preps your face to better absorb your moisturizer.

 Here's an example of that: Go get a dry sponge and squirt some lotion on it. Does it really absorb the lotion? Now go get a dry sponge, get it wet first,  then squirt some lotion on it. Different result,  right? That's the importance of a serum and essence before a moisturizer.

And a good-quality serum just can't be beat. This is where you'll really start to see those amazing results come in. Usually with these, a little goes a long way, so don't be afraid to spend the extra money here.

If you're concerned about spending a lot of money and something not working for you, try going with a brand that has a money back guarantee like this one.

5. Use your products Morning & Evening, if you can, but at LEAST in the evening.

Lathering up your skin before bed is a great idea because it allows all of those amazing ingredients to soak in overnight! Don't overcomplicate it, though. Use your skincare when you KNOW you'll use it!

And lastly, when you've found a good routine that you can work into your lifestyle,  stick with it.

Girl, I know how busy you are because I know how busy life can get! But skipping a skincare routine isn't worth it in the long run. Yes, we will all age, but isn't it worth it to try and age gracefully? I think so. (My husband may disagree 😏)

But find the products that work well for your skin type and stick with them. Consistency is key in order to see and feel results. I promise a year from when you start, you'll be pleased with what you see in the mirror. :)

Now, if you want to know exactly what I use on my combination skin,  stay tuned because another post will be coming with all the deets!

Thanks for reading and I HOPE this helped you!

XO
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My Honest Review of "Bellame" Skincare!

Hey all!

Thanks for stopping by today to check out my brutally honest review of the Bellame skincare line.

If you haven't followed me on Instagram yet, be sure to do so! That way, you can stay up to date on all of my future beauty posts!

Let's jump right in with the review...

I was originally sent samples of the Bellame skincare line back in November. A friend recommended them, so I thought "Hey, why not?!" She promptly sent them to me with a Bellame bamboo washcloth, hair tie, and some opportunity brochures.

The samples included 4 of their main products. The Bellame Hydrating Cleanser, The hydrating Moisturizer, the eye cream, and the anti-aging serum....all from their Acqua Luimere line.

When I first opened the sample cleanser, I was pleasantly surprised by the smell. It has a beautiful,  floral, rose scent, as does the moisturizer. I honestly can't remember if the eye cream has a scent, but the serum had no distinct smell that I remember.

When I applied the cleanser, I instantly felt BURNING! Not just tingling, but burning! Yikes! I was pretty out off by that, so I removed the cleanser with a warm washcloth and all was well. I then tried the serum. Wow, that felt AMAZING! Soothing and lovely. Then I applied the eye cream and moisturizer. I did notice a bit of burning with the eye cream, as well, but not with the moisturizer.

After applying these products that night,  I truly could instantly feel a difference in my skin. I LOVED the way it felt...softer, more hydrated. And I have oilier skin, too, so I thought a moisturizer like this would only leave my skin feeling more oily.

Upon waking the next day, my skin still felt very soft and supple. I continued using these samples for about 4-5 days.

After the samples ran out, I was sad! I genuinely wanted to continue using these products- especially the moisturizer and serum. Again, I was still leery of the cleanser and eye cream because of the burning.

I asked my husband for the serum and moisturizer for Christmas, hoping he would oblige. Thankfully,  he did, but he bought the cleanser instead of the serum. :( A little disappointed, I was determined to return the cleanser and repurchase the serum. My husband encouraged me to try it and just see how I liked it, though. So, I did.

And for 3 weeks I questioned why I was using this cleanser, haha. I LOVED the smell and the feel of it AND the fact that it removed all of my makeup, but I still had some burning. Yet, after 4 weeks, I found myself reaching more for this cleanser than my usual cleansing balm because that sensation seemed to be dissipating.  And finally that feeling went away entirely!

During this time of using these two products consistently,  I kept in contact with a Bellame rep, who is also an esthetician. She encouraged me to keep using them and stop my other products (such as a retinoid oil) to avoid any unnecessary sensitivity.  She told me that the high-powered hyaluronic acid and Vitamin C together,  may be too much for skin all at once, but to skip a day here and there and see how it goes. I honestly wasn't sure what I thought of her advice, but I decided to stick it out.

And let me just say, I'm so glad I did! By week 5 I was noticing my skin texture had completely changed! It feels smoother, softer, more supple, less greasy, and weird dry patches! I haven't noticed any dramatic changes like my wrinkles disappearing,  but I do feel like my skin looks the best it can look right now.  All of my random breakouts have stopped, I can skip a day of my skincare regimen without seeing any side effects, and it's an easy 3 step routine that I look forward to doing each day!

Now, let's talk briefly about the packaging. It's absolutely beautiful! I love the look of it, and what's even better is that you're able to SEE the product being used up! No guessing how much is left and I appreciate the transparency,  too.

Because of my results, I decided to sign up and rep this company myself. Getting a discount on amazing, luxury skincare is a win, win!

I can't wait to see the difference in my skin by this time next year! And I also look forward to trying more of the Bellame line!


If you're interested in trying these products out for yourself, you can visit my website here or email me and I'd be happy to send you a sample! :)

XO
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Hyped Up Beauty Products...Purchase or Pass? Part 2!

Well, here we are again, friends!

This time, we are taking a closer look at cleansing balms.

I first heard about a cleansing balm about a year ago from a friend. It peaked my interest because I had only ever used foaming or soapy cleaners. But this particular cleanser was supposed to remove all of my makeup, all while cleansing my face. What?!

It sort of sounded too good to be true. I mean, I've always had to use an eye makeup remover or makeup remover wipe to get all of my mascara and eyeliner off.

My friend gave it rave reviews, though, so I wanted to try it. The problem was this particular balm was going to cost me all of $72 to purchase! 😳

I was a little taken back that a CLEANSER would cost me so much! Don't get me wrong, I absolutely think that some skincare products are worth that amount, but a cleanser? This is the one product that stays on your skin for the shortest amount of time, no way am I spending that much.

I figured there had to be one out there for a more affordable price. I found this one at Ulta and decided to give it a try.

The one I purchased was the travel size for just $8! I wasn't ready to commit to a full size product yet, because what if I hated it?

Right away I noticed that this balm didn't really have a scent, which was ok with me. I despise anything that has a bad smell or an overpowering scent. The texture felt similarly to coconut oil, which didn't surprise me. I slathered some on my face and began rubbing. Immediately I started to see my makeup melt away!

Yes, a product that really delivered AND at a price I could afford!

It removed all of my makeup,  even that stubborn mascara. All I did was use a warm, wet washcloth and wipe the balm away. Also, I never noticed any blemishes or breakouts arising from using this product.


Although I don't use this daily anymore, I'm happy to report that it's a great product. If you're looking for an inexpensive balm that removes makeup easily, this is a good one.

Honestly,  I prefer a different product for my daily use now, but I'll get into that specific product at a later time.

Hope this was helpful to you!

Do you use a cleansing balm? If so, what's your favorite brand?
Let me know in the comments below!

XO
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The Silent Pain of Cesarean

Friends, this is a post that has been so difficult to write. For so many reasons, really.

I know that my story isn't really unique, but the pain is so real, even now. So real that tears are streaming down my face as I write it. I also know that my story isn't the worst one out there, but it's still been a difficult road for me, personally. I know that even in all of this, I still have so much to be thankful for.

First and foremost,  let me make known the reason behind sharing this story is that I desperately want to help a mom who feels the same as I do. I want her to know that she is seen and loved and her pain is felt. It's valid. Its heart-wrenching. It's ok to cry about it! It's ok to feel what you're feeling.

And if this isn't you, I hope and pray that this story will change how you view mamas like me. We aren't weak. We aren't wrong. We tried our best. We may not be like you, but saying the thoughtless things you say about "natural birth" hurts us and cuts us more deeply than you can imagine. Yes, we tried that suggestion.  Yes we knew that method. But it didn't work for us. We already deal with feelings of failure on our own, we don't need to be reminded of painful failures.

I so badly want to be seen as strong and capable and confident. It probably stems from being the youngest child in a big family,  I don't know. But sharing the weak parts of my life are hard for me. Very hard.

I don't want to be pitied. I don't want others to think ill of me, or see me as a negative person. But sometimes, in order to truly connect with others these vulnerable parts have to be shown. So that's the goal here. Connecting with the women who have felt or feel like I do. Letting the women that can't relate see how sometimes your stories make us feel ashamed. And we know you don't mean it, but we can't contribute to the "natural birth" conversation in the same way, and it brings shame, pain, and regret for us mamas.

My story starts almost 11 years ago with my first born babe. Man, I was so young. Just 19 and having baby #1. She was a honeymoon baby and at first I was devastated when I found out I was pregnant,  but after awhile, it became the most exciting thing ever. I wanted to be a mom more than anything else. Maybe not get married,  but I did want to be a mom, lol. (Inside joke)

The only birth experiences I had ever known at this point were those of my mom and sisters. My mom had 4 c-sections. Her doctors told her in the 80s that her pelvis was too narrow and she wouldn't be able to have babies vaginally. She always expressed to me that she would've wanted more if this wasn't the case. But, she went ahead and got her tubes tied with me because of the doctors recommendation.

My sister's birth stories varied. One of my sisters had her baby naturally in a birthing center,  but it was a hard labor. She pushed for hours. Two of my other sisters ended up having c-sections due to pre-eclampsia. One of my sisters had both vaginal and c-section births. I didn't know this then, but my grandma (on my mom's side) also had a couple c-sections.

Anyway, I thought I was strong. Strong enough to go without pain meds. Strong enough to push this baby out, no way would I need a cesarean birth. I went to the birthing classes and breastfeeding classes. I did all the things I was told to do.

Then my bp started to rise and my doctor recommended induction. I thought,  "Sure, why not? Let's get this baby out!". So I was induced the next day. Everything was going ok until the contractions were back to back without a rest between. It was all back labor.

I knew I needed something for the pain, so I consented to an epidural. I was dilated to a 5 by that point so I figured it would be smooth sailing from here on out. Well, soon after the epidural,  my body stopped having contractions. An hour later,  nothing.

My doctor recommended c-section. With all of the birth story knowledge I had, I thought, "Well, I must be like my mom." And consented to it. Knowing what I now know, I probably would've said "No."

Anyway, Ruby was born via c-section that afternoon. It wasn't a bad experience,  overall. My mom and sisters were there to help and support me. Ruby came out with a little ring around her head where she was pushed up against my cervix, but it wasn't dilating.

Then, came time for my second birth, with my son.  It was 2 years later and in a different state. I was told I was a good candidate for VBAC, until he felt my pelvis. He said I was "too small". Since they told my mom the same, I didn't question it. My second son was born via c-section in 2011. That was probably my hardest recovery,  but still, I was ok.

5 years later,  I finally got pregnant with my second daughter. This time, I had educated myself. I knew the risks of a third c-section.  I knew the risks of VBA2C. I did my research for a VBAC friendly doctor. I worked out religiously that pregnancy. I ate right. I drank the raspberry tea and ate all the dates. I talked with my friends who were experts in vaginal birthing. I had the mindset of "I AM HAVING a VBAC!"

I FINALLY went into prodormal labor with her, a week late and I was scheduled for an induction the next day, so I went ahead and went in. I was only at a 1 when I arrived. By the next morning I was at a 2 and they started pitocin. Contractions and pain picked up, but I didn't care I was determined. But man, I was so tired. Almost 24 hours had passed, my water broke, and I finally got checked. Expecting to see dilation,  I was only at a 3.

I was crushed.

What had I done wrong? Just last week my midwife said her head was engaged,  now nothing? I've bounced in the ball, I've walked, I've done allllllll the things right.

I finally consented to an epidural because I just wanted to rest and my midwife assured me that when this happened to others she knew, an epidural helped them relax and their cervix dilated.

I had the epidural done and I went into a panic. I for sure thought I was having another c-section...I felt trapped. I was scared.  I wanted to run away and I couldn't move. Finally,  they calmed me down and I was able to rest.

A couple hours later I was checked and nothing.  No dilation. I was ready to give up. My midwife had a heart to heart with me.

"Why are you so against having another c-section?", she asked. "BECAUSE! I WANT MORE BABIES!", I cried. "Having another c-section doesn't mean you can't have more babies", she said. "I've known some women who have eight or nine of them! Some women's cervixes just don't work properly. You are narrow and I think the baby just isn't able to come down."

I can't even explain the hurt, pain, and shame I felt in that moment. And to see my husband standing beside me, tears streaming down his face, too, because he was scared for me, was frightening.

He and I prayed and I felt total peace about the repeat section. I don't remember much about it because I was super drugged up. I could feel pain beforehand, so they gave me more pain meds.

Freya was born that night and she was perfect and beautiful. I was the most exhausted from that birth experience,  but also had the best recovery.

When I found out I was pregnant with my fourth baby, our second son, I was so scared. Worried about what others would think if I tried for a VBAC again and unsure of my ability to birth, I scheduled my fourth c-section. Honestly,  during the whole first trimester, I was out of it. I had a really hard time coming to terms with this pregnancy,  since it wasn't planned. That is hard for me to admit, but it's true.

By the third trimester,  I started to get excited about this new baby, but I still had a lot of fear in my mind and heart. It took giving it to God DAILY for me to be able to function and not be frozen with fear and anxiety. 

I prayed Every. Single. Day. that God would allow me to spontaneously go into labor and have a natural birth, even if that meant staying home to avoid the hospital. I had some early signs of labor, but nothing progressed.

I went in on May 9th and had a beautiful baby boy. As soon as they laid him on my chest, I knew he was meant to be here. But that c-section was hard and long. I kept asking if they were done yet.  My bp dropped and I was given something to raise my bp, probably adrenaline. I was scared and I felt the pain in my abdomen during it.

Relief flooded my heart and mind when they were wheeling me out of the OR with the baby on my chest. He even latched the minute we got into our room! I knew I wasn't totally out of the woods, but I had survived the surgery!

The days passed and I recovered, just as quickly and easily as before. But my doctor told me something scary this time.

First,  she started with a question, "Are you planning on having more babies?". "I don't know", I replied. "This may be my last one." "Good", she said. "It took us awhile in the OR because it was hard to put your uterus back together. Imagine sewing together tissue paper." 😳

I was shocked when she said that. Shocked, scared, worried. "Will I be ok?" "You should be fine if you don't have anymore, but stretching it again with a pregnancy would be very risky."

When she said that, I felt upset and defeated. Someone just told me that I shouldn't have any more babies. Ever. That it was too risky. That my body couldn't do it. I felt like my body failed me. My doctors failed me. My mind failed me. I failed.

That baby of mine is turning two in a few months and I feel SO blessed to be able to be here with him and my other three children,  but sometimes, my heart still aches.

It aches because I know that I would want more children. My husband would want more children. We love babies and cherish our kids more than anything else! When we got married, we agreed that we would have TEN kids, haha!

And here I am,  feeling like I have a body and mind that failed me. Could I have more kids without risking my life? I don't know. Is it a risk I'm willing to take? I don't know.

But do I want more? Yes! And it hurts to think that that door may be closed to me forever. If it were up to me, I would stay barefoot and pregnant for a few more years, at least. It's ok if you don't get that, but that's what I would love. Babies are precious and a gift and I LOVED the time I was able to nurse them and rock them to sleep.

And if you're a mama that feels like I do, it's ok to feel that way! You're not alone. I hear you and I see you. I want you to know that YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE. 

Even though I felt like my body failed,  my doctors failed, everything failed, my birth stories are not stories of failure. They are stories of triumph. My babies were born safely and that was the goal. They were brought into this world and God sustained us the whole way. God is the hero of this story.

He may not have answered my prayers like I wanted, but He kept me and each baby safe until delivery. His grace gave me strength to recover. His mercy was shown to me time and time again. And now I can count myself blessed to have had to fully rely on His strength in those weak moments.

I still rely on His strength now, to give me comfort in the times when I feel hurt by listening to others talk about their stories because mine was so different. I rely on His strength for understanding when I want to question "why me?". I rely on Him to ease the silent pain that I feel in these quiet moments of longing for more children.

Now the big question: Will I ever have more babies? I don't know. Clearly, its complicated. But what I do know is IF we do choose to have more, I know that no matter what anyone else thinks, God will get us through it. Even if I it defies human logic, He will sustain us through every storm. That, I know for sure.

XO
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The ONE Product that Saved & Regrew my hair!

I know that was a super dramatic title to this blog post, but FOR REAL....I think we can all agree that sudden changes in our hair can be alarming. It feels like my hair is one of those things that makes me....ME!

And the change that I had was dramatic. One day when I looked into the mirror, I noticed a random BALD SPOT right up front on one side! It shocked me because I have never lost any substantial amount of hair before- not even post partum!  This just so happened to be a few months after my baby turned a year old, so I knew it couldn't be that, either.

I did my best to cover up the spot and thankfully, it wasn't really that noticeable. Even though this sudden change was undesireable, to say the least, I mostly just wanted to get down to the bottom of WHY my hair was falling out. I mean, what if it KEPT falling out?!  My hair-dresser friend even took a look at it for me and she couldn't really come up with a "why". When I really stopped to think about it, I came to two possible conclusions: My thyroid & My hormones.

Coincidentally, I had just gone through a period where I was very depressed for about 3 weeks. I mean really depressed. Without going into much detail, it was one of the lowest times for me, personally, and my emotions pretty much went through the ringer. My anxiety was up, I was having weird, emotional outbursts and I knew something was wrong. When I really started to realize that I was very depressed, I reached out for help, I prayed and I honestly just decided that I was going to get my act together and not let these circumstances get me down.

It was a few weeks after this depressed time that I noticed the bald spot. I really think that being so emtoionally drained made my hormones take a dive, which may have affected my thyroid, but most definitely affected my hair loss. I think whatever hair wasn't healthy and barely hanging on from the post partum hormones just said, "See ya!" when the depression took over.

Now, I have to tell you that I was so embarrassed about this, I really didn't take any "before" pictures. So you may not see the full effect, but I do have pictures of the hair growing back.

So, that's the backstory of WHY I needed this product.

When I felt that the naked patch of hair on my head had taken up residence long enough, I began researching shampoos for hair regrowth. I looked at a TON. And let me tell you, there are a lot that make that claim. Their prices range anywhere from $10-$40. Being the frugal girl that I try to be (my husband may disagree with you), I wanted to go with one that wasn't expensive.

I came across this shampoo on the Target website and started reading about it. It didn't actually mention hair-regrowth, but after doing the research that I did, I knew the ingredients listed sounded very promising. This particular shampoo is meant to heal severely damaged hair. Never thinking my hair was severely damaged before, I always steered clear of these types of shampoos, thinking they would weigh down my hair. But I knew with my current issue, I had to do something drastic. Oh well, if it weighed my hair down. I wanted and needed to build my hair back up with good ingredients. This shampoo has ingredients like collagen, elastin, amino acids, and rice protein,  which when I did my research,  seemed to be key in growing hair.

So, here it is. I opted for this SUPER affordable Nexxus Keraphix shampoo. And it cost my a whopping $13.

I've used other Nexxus Shampoos before and I liked how light they felt and the way they smelled. This one has a very pleasant scent, as well. AND if you're like me and you're concerned about ingredients, this shampoo ranks a 5 on the EWG site. Meaning, that although it's not the most natural product, it's also not super laden with toxins, so I can feel ok about using it.

Well, let me tell you about how I use it. This shampoo, for whatever reason, doesn't lather super well. I would use one pump (I love having the pump, btw) and wash my hair. Then, I use a second pump and my hair would lather up SO nicely with that second wash! So, yes, I wash my hair twice with this shampoo. I've heard of doing this before, but never tried it before this shampoo. The first wash really gets rid of any buildup from my styling products I use like dry shampoo, heat shield, and hairspray. The second wash is what really cleanses the hair. This method of washing twice has worked very well for me. Sometimes, I won't wash twice, if I stayed home and didn't style my hair that day.

I have been using this shampoo for 5 months now and I am SO happy to tell you that I have a small patch of hair regrowing so beautifully where the bald spot once was! AND the absolute best part for me is that I am using the SAME bottle! That's right, I haven't even had to repurchase this shampoo yet because it's lasting me so long!
And I know you heard me say that I've been washing my hair TWICE, right?!

My hair just feels so long and strong now that I would absolutely recommend this product to others. I know that it's the reason my hair has grown back and keeps growing long. Now, I didn't purchase the condtioner because my hair doesn't tolerate any conditoner (too greasy). But, if you have thicker, more coarse hair, give the conditoner a try, too!

I'm not sure if every drugstore or big box store carries this particular shampoo, but I do know that Target has it.  I wish I could explain all of the science to you about why this shampoo has worked so well for me, but I can't. All I can do is say that it WORKED and I'm praising Jesus!

Hope this post was helpful to you in some way! And stop by once a week to catch up on any other Beauty posts that you may find helpful!

XO
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Linked with Inspire Me Mondays

My Word for 2020.

If you read this post last year, then you may be wondering if I've chosen a new word for the year 2020.

And the answer is, YES. It only took me a month, but I've got it. :)

I think back to last year's word, and I see so many times where I had to rely on His strength and in doing so, God really did make me stronger. There was some tough stuff. Not earth-shattering,  but stuff that I had to learn the hard way.

I had to grow a thicker skin. I had to find an inner strength I thought I lost. I had to lean hard into my marriage, at times. I had to remind myself of God's promises. I had to make new committments. I had to work through painful memories. And through it all, God was good.

This year, I know exactly what it is that God is placing on my heart to work on. And that is Consistency.

I've started a great many things in my life, but honestly there have been few I've finished.  I'm an adventurer at heart and have all the great ideas. 😜

But, my follow-through is definitely lacking, if I'm being honest with myself. Point blank: I'm lazy and don't like it when things get hard. Usually as soon as there's pushback of any kind, I stop.

And the sad part about that is, I'm probably missing out on the greatest breakthrough when I stop dead in my tracks. Nothing worthwhile is ever easy, I know that. But I allow my own self-doubt and negative self talk to get in my way.

My husband frequently says, "You just need to get out of your own head. Stop talking yourself out of it." And he's right. That's exactly what I do.

But this year, that's something I aim to quit doing. I want to push through and work through all the growing pains. I want to show up, every day, and take action in my life. Not just float by, going from thing to thing, without making a conscious decision about what I'm doing.

One of the things I want to work on is this. Writing.

Lord, willing you'll be seeing a lot more posts from me because my goal is to consistently write three times a week. And not just write, but write good, helpful content that I can feel good about.

I've wanted to write for years, and I'll never be a good writer if  I don't actually start and KEEP writing!

I hope that you'll pray for me, that I stay consistent in my daily life.  There are so many things I need to stay consistent at. My time with God, my parenting in a way that points to Christ, my health, making my marriage a priority, etc so I need lots of prayer!

What about you? Have you chosen a word for the year 2020? If so, why did you choose that word?

I would love to know!

XO
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